Dear friend,
I suddenly found myself having all the time in the world to be quiet.
With no one to talk to, I became a silent observer. I just did not realise there was quite so much bizarre and strange to observe.
I started writing because I had no one to report back to about what I was observing.
So if an old acquaintance asked a rather none-of-your-business question, I felt compelled to write it down.
Someone mentioned that my observations were dark and funny. I’m not sure, but I wrote about everything from school runs and one too many failed driving tests to books, unfinished manuscripts and decisions about how Alan’s work would evolve without him — while my own identity was changing alongside it.
Those observations became Diary of the Writer’s Wife — a record of the first twelve months after Alan’s death through the things I saw, heard, did and decided were worth writing down.
This is a very personal launch of my book, Diary of the Writer’s Wife.
I wanted to enjoy sharing it, away from the pressure of deadlines and book-launch strategies.
So, if you are curious, join me for an intimate literary afternoon to talk about the diary, the stories behind it and the rather peculiar world of being the writer’s wife after the writer is gone.
Looking forward to meeting you in person
Tamara Forrest-Smith
The publication of Diary of the Writer’s Wife is supported by Arts Council England and is scheduled for 16 October 2026.